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The Logic of Christians
Why I am an Atheist
Why We are Atheists
Do You Want to Buy My Soul?
The Power of Faith
Faith, Hope and Belief
The Leap of Faith
What the Bible Says About Abortion
Aborting Babies
Free Pornography
Military Salute
Animal Rights
Women and Islam
Religious indoctrination is child abuse
Evils of Music
Kill the Puppy Dogs
Masturbation
Does God Bless America?
Teenage Sex
The Clitoris
The Future does not Suck
Fashionable People
There's Nowt as Queer as Folk
The Ghosts of Puritanism
Palace Admits Prince Charles is Gay
Paedophilia is Not a Crime
Is Sex With Animals Always Wrong?

How to Win the Lottery without buying a ticket

Meatheads, Slobs and Pencil Necked Geeks
Is Equality Possible?

Circumcision
Does God Bless America?
Chick Food
Should Adultery be Illegal?

When I was 12 or 13, I think I died in my sleep. These days, I had a bad habit of sleeping with a blanket over my head so that my breath could keep me warm. One night, I dreamt that I was drowning in a swimming pool, but it was different than other dreams because I knew it went beyond just the surreal. I knew it was my actual body experiencing it. I couldn’t move my body to wake myself up and I was literally suffocating. In retrospect, it was clearly due to the lack of oxygen and an over-consumption of carbon dioxide. But when I finally woke up, I knew beyond a doubt that I had actually died. Since this point, nothing has been the same. I was disconnected.

Although I’m hesitant to accept it, I am literally not the same person. My memories of before this point in my life are blurry at best. Sure, they’re in my head here and there but I don’t feel attached to them like I do current memories (if that makes any sense). I also don’t feel emotion the same way that I “remember”. The way I feel now is completely different.

For a long while, I was told by my parents that I had a chemical imbalance, so they had me see several psychiatrists for “help”. The truth of it was that I saw my parents on a different level… from a new perspective. My personality shifted and my parents didn’t know how to handle it, so they forced me on all sorts of medications to try to keep me under control. The thing is, I wasn’t a bad child by any means… I was fairly well behaved in fact, but they noticed I was very different. I must emphasize that it went beyond typical teenage behavior. Also, I don’t feel a connection to my own family even though before this, I had a very strong connection, especially with my sister.

Anyway, I came across your article on teleportation, and you said you’d be interested in hearing from someone like me, so here I am. I would rather stay anonymous if possible, but hopefully I can still be of some insight into the phenomenon.

Matt

Absolutely fascinating. If I can think of any questions I'll let you know.

The teleport debate is one which recurs from time to time on my forum. We debate ourselves into a standstill and then it goes quiet for a few months. A new eruption is due. If you fancy a debate about your condition I can guarantee that you will get one.

Such debates belong in the Mind and Matters forum

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Martin Willett

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I understand that you are atheist and everything but when it comes to abortion and the one that made me, he states that he knew us while we were being formed in our mother's womb. I am 30 weeks pregnant and I have felt my baby's movement since about 20 weeks. I saw her heartbeat at around 8 weeks. There is no heart or muscle function without a working brain. I am also a medical student who has been studying medicine since I was about 14 yrs old. I am the type of person that is very eager to learn and have been doing so since I first found out about abortion. No matter what you say, no matter how you twist it, a life is a life no matter what. A tree is a tree despite being in the form of a seed or if you are able to see every branch and every leaf. When it comes to a baby, as with any living thing, it only needs time to grow. No matter outside the womb or inside, that human still has the right to life. I have seen videos (silent scream) about a unborn child, I cannot remember the amount of weeks but the baby was very small. The doctor used suction abortion and the child was trying to get away and you could see the child pulling away and opening its mouth as if it were screaming.

As a nation we shouldn't be allowed to kill the most defenseless, especially in such a brutal way. Abortion happens in many forms, from the beginning of a pregnancy all the way up until that child is being delivered at the end of the 9 months. One day we'll all know the truth, but we'll never be able to take back what we have done.

My mother had an abortion and even 27 years later she is still dealing with it. Maybe many should take that into consideration. If the child isn't a child then why do mothers grieve years later for wha they have done?

Are you aware of the existence of the rest of the world? Don't assume everybody is a member of your nation, that attitude alienates people very quickly.

A sprouted acorn is not an oak tree. There is a tree preservation order on the trees in my garden. If I fell a tree without permission I am in trouble; If I chop off a seedling with a hoe I am not. There is a difference and that difference is so obvious that nobody needs it explaining unless they have already tied themselves up in knots as you have done.

Has a foetus ever complained about abortion? Of course not. That would be impossible. A foetus lacks those uniquely human communication skills. A foetus capable of feeling pain and moving does not exceed the powers of expression, communication, understanding, sympathy, empathy and ability to suffer of the animals that the majority of our species has no problem with eating. The foetus is entitled to good veterinary care, that is all.

There have been no fundamental new discoveries in the study of foetal development. We have always known that foetuses are capable of movement and expression and are sensitive. So are pigs, and far more so. There has never been an argument that foetuses are animals and nobody has produced any new evidence to show that they exceed the rest of the animal kingdom in any faculty that matters. Looking vaguely human and sucking their thumbs is something monkeys can manage just as well. Catholics have always considered that foetuses have souls, although they have never managed to explain what a soul is and why it needs to be grown in a human body rather than being created directly in the stalls of the celestial choir.

I can see no good reason to grant members of our species any especially human rights until they are in some meaningful sense people. For me that transition happens several weeks after birth. Before that time I see no reason to grant them an absolute right to life in their own right. Of course killing a newborn child should be a crime by default, as should killing a foetus (or indeed somebody else's cat), unless there is a reasonable and lawful excuse. I see the avoidance of bringing up an unwanted child as an acceptable excuse while that foetus is fully dependent upon the mother and it is the mother's choice and the mother is aware of all relevant information. Abortion is not something I am in favour of but neither am I in favour of women being forced to continue with a pregnancy which they feel is likely to ruin their life. Abortion clinics are like airbags, fire escapes, lifeboats and ejector seats: nobody wants to have to use them because nobody ever wants to be in that situation, but those situations will keep on happening. We should do all we can to reduce the number of such emergencies but maintain our provision for them.

I see the people who call abortion murder as hateful and unfeeling dogmatists who knowingly inflict mental cruelty upon people who have been traumatized by these experiences. People continue to grieve for lost unborn children for their whole life, whether that is as a result of miscarriage, stillbirth or abortion. Obviously an abortion is something which demands to be be either regretted or not regretted because it is a decision that has been made. Sane people manage to regret the falling pregnant at the wrong time and learn to accept the abortion as a consequence of the unwanted pregnancy rather than an act of criminal cosmic defiance. The religious have to think that the pregnancy was God's work and therefore unquestionably good. That is a very damaging idea, an idea responsible for more pain than any tough decision.

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Martin Willett

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I can see a demon in your face martin. I know your going to think i'm a fool and say whatever you want to say about me, but you will find out sooner or later.Soften your subborn heart and allow the blood of Christ to wash your filthy wickedness.


 

In reference to "Marriage and Atheism"

Being an athiest married in a Christian Church, had you already been baptized Christian? Or did you find a loop hole in not being at all baptized and still marrying a Christian in a Christian Church?

I am Roman Catholic, and my boyfriend is Athiest. He would marry in a Christian Church for my sake, and that of my family, but is not willing to become baptized for it, nor would I ever ask him.

If you are not baptized, which kind of Christian Church were you married in?

Thank you for your help. Much appreciated.

Respectfully,

Hopeful Mary

I was baptized and confirmed and therefore the Church of England still class me as a member. As several of their bishops are atheists (on the quiet of course) they don't see any problems. Don't ask, don't tell.

If your fiancé is prepared to lie and make meaningless promises in church for the sake of appearances once what's stopping him doing it more than once? If it's money you should find some Catholic who is willing to offer to pay.

Another alternative is a Unitarian Universalist church, they don't ask any questions and are quite happy to have people who are openly atheists as members. They'll marry atheists, gays, lesbians and possibly even pets. Just ask.

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Martin Willett

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Dear Sir,

I am vijay from India, I am in marketing field for 10 years, My wife is workig as assistant Professor in an Engineering College. I am involved in many social Activities such as,

# Conducting Free medical camp for villages,

# Conducting meetings to discuss About Gandhidian Thoughts,

We are doing these Activities in the name

"NATIONAL GANDHIAN UNITY AND YOUTH THOUGHTS FORUM"

I have also planned to do service to my nation and to its forsaken and downtrodden people in the way shown by Mahatma gandhijii.

Many college students from various colleges are also interested to doing with me to do this wonderful servies.

As we are in need of funds for further activies, we like your contributin towards this and join with us to do this wonderful service..

Yours faithfully,

P.vijay

cell: 097909 26259

Emil: vijay79_lancer@yahoo.co.in

I am not a nationalist, an Indian, a Hindu or a believer in the myth of Gandhi. I think he was a manipulative little shit with a disastrous plan for the people of India.

I am also not rich. Sorry you fucked up with this one just about as big as it is possible to do.

I hope this messages causes you to lose heart and give up your obscene scheme to beg money from those parts of the world which are being productive so you can help keep your part of the world in perpetual quaint poverty, ignorance and fecund squalor.

It is possible however that you are merely a conman, in which case I do apologize for impugning your honour and the integrity of your motivation.

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Martin Willett

http://mwillett.org/

Hi Martin, I'd like to request permission to reprint:

"Belief without proof is a virtue for the religious. To the scientist belief without evidence is gross professional misconduct."

from http://www.mwillett.org/atheism/manmade1.htm

I'd like to put this in a novel I'm working on that has strong atheist/freethought themes.

Thanks.

Paul Gehrman

Sure. Will there be any kind of attribution? If not I'll just have to make sure I at least publish your email to get it acknowledged that way.

I have quoted or paraphrased myself on that one once or twice but I'm fairly confident that it is original. I think I first wrote that phrase in 1999:

http://groups.google.com/group/talk.atheism

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Martin Willett

http://mwillett.org/

Hi, I am Kerry Wilson. I write in tongues. I received the speaking in tongues gift 18 years ago. Within 5 years I found myself writing in tongues. I took it to a gal at a university who looked middle eastern to see if she recognized the language. She said it looked like very sloppy ancient aramaic. She didn't know I wrote it, or under what circumstances it was written. I still write it. I write from rt to left when writing. Do you think it is aramaic or just a heavenly script that only the father in Heaven can translate? I'll send it to you if you like. I have looked for answers for years, but have found no one else who writes in tongues or even believes me. Thanks for your time. Kerry

Just for a few moments imagine that you were a religious lunatic who wanted to persuade people that your beliefs were true by the use of tricks. How would you simulate "writing in tongues"? It's as easy as copying some script that you have seen. How would you do it if you were trying to hide the deception from yourself?

A real god would have all the time in the world to learn how to write in any language he cared to use. I would begin to take this seriously if you could write in any language nominated, under carefully controlled conditions and the writing turned out to be understandable and meaningful. Showing it to somebody whose only academic qualification seems to be fitting your idea of looking Middle Eastern does not qualify as using the scientific method.

If you would like to send me some fresh writing please feel free.

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Martin Willett

http://mwillett.org/



I must ask you--How do you believe the Earth was created? The Big Bang Theory? Do you really believe there is enough evidence that a big explosion perfectly created the entire universe and life on Earth? An explosion that came from nothing? You rely and base your "belief" on not believing anything on scientists who claim they have found proof that God didn't create the universe. You just take their word for it. Have you physically sat side by side with these "experts" and did everything they've done to see if it is actually plausible? These are the same scientists who change there theories all the time with so-called "new evidence." Scientists who tell us that studies show a certain food is good for us, then later tell us it's bad for us. I'm sure you have watched alot of TV shows about the absence of God during the creation of the Earth. What if those same scientists instead were supporting the belief that God did in fact create this universe? Would you believe them then? Probably not because you only want to believe in those scientists and "experts" who support your very same non-belief.

On the subject of The Atheist barber story, I think most Christians already know that simply telling the story to an atheist isn't going to change his/her views. Perhaps maybe make them think a little bit and ask questions, but not convince an atheist. Christians don't soley base their faith on this story. It's an uplifting story to help reassure them of their faith.

The fact is alot of atheists, no matter how much evidence is thrown at them, will still never believe in God...simply because they do not want to believe there is a higher power that has more control than they do. People want to believe that they have total control and control their own life and destiny. You really believe after all this time that if God sent you an email it would change your mind?

Would you rather have God force everyone to love and believe in him? Would you want someone to love you because they choose to or because they are forced to? God gives us free will. We can choose to believe or not believe in him. Those who don't believe in him will go to hell. They choose to not have anything to do with him so God gives them what they want. Why would someone who denies Christ want to spend eternity with him?

And there is pain and suffering in the world because we have sinned. We choose to do the things we do, whether they are moral or immoral. The reason this world is so ugly is because of sin....murder, theft, drugs, pornography, addictions, hate, rage, etc. What good is having a life if you can't make your own decisions. Christians are to try and not participate in these acts, to love one another and help others find Christ and pull them away from a life of ugly sin. And go to God and other Christians when they are feeling weak and feel like sin is trying to pull them back in. Do you want God to give you a "sign?" Well that very sign could be as little as simply someone who decides to talk to you about Christ. You choose to deny those signs. And I'm sure you and many other people have encountered so-called "christians" who are hypocrites and only judge and damn others to hell with fear and anger. But you can't just look at those certain people and decide that all Christians are the same way. If those people choose to act that way then you should take it up with those individuals. Do you dislike all sports and sport athletes because certain choose to cheat and use steroids to enhance their performance? Christians are taught to share the gospel in a positive way.

Galatians 6:

1 Dear brothers and sisters, if another believer is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path. And be careful not to fall into the same temptation yourself. 2 Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ. 3 If you think you are too important to help someone, you are only fooling yourself. You are not that important.

4 Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone else. 5 For we are each responsible for our own conduct.

So don't believe that all Christians are hypocrites, because there are certain atheists who can be hypocrites just as well. I hear several non-believers say "everything happens for a reason." And I ask, how can someone say that if they believe there isn't a higher power governing them. If they believe they control their own lives and everything is based on chance then how could everything happen for a reason without someone higher being in control of that reasoning.

There are many different religions that have come and gone throughout the ages. How many people do you know that still worship Greek Gods or Thor, Venus, Ganesh. But the main belief behind Christianity has not changed since Christ walked this Earth. What is written in the Bible has not changed. What other books have been around that long? There are certain religions who choose to either take away or add to the Bible certain beliefs and commandments that they "choose" to follow...but the Bible itself has not changed. The main idea behind Christianity is the belief that Christ is the Son of God and he died on the cross for our sins, and the only way to heaven is through Him. And we are given the Bible to help live our lives as Christ-like as possible. Those who choose to believe and follow only certain commandments to please their own wants and needs is that persons decision. So don't judge all Christians as those individuals

Please write back if you have any comments

First point, why do you have to ask? Why don't you let God tell you, or are you not on speaking terms?

I don't believe the Earth was created, I believe it formed. If you think the Big Bang explains "the creation of the Earth" you really need to do a lot more research. Try searching for answers that don't come from people who are pushing religion or mocking science. Your level of ignorance is encyclopaedic. Start with encyclopaedias rather than sermons or tracts. Find out about the beliefs you mock, I read the Bible, at least you could read a mere ten thousand or so words of science unfiltered by religion.

There is pain and suffering in this world because there is not a god to ensure that there isn't. Can you really imagine a world in which nothing bad could ever happen? How would that operate? Think about it. Seriously think it through. Ask yourself how a world could exist without the possibility of anything bad happening. Do you actually know how to think? Are you too frightened to think freely in case you upset God? It is no more possible to have a universe that cannot contain evil than it is to have a universe that cannot contain beige. A universe without evil would have to be made and run by a magical being who took special care to ensure that nothing evil occurred. Evil exists as an adjective, not a noun.

Are you Christ-like? Do you approve of the sacrificing of animals to God but disapprove of making a profit? Are you celibate? Have you collected together a bunch of people to follow you? Do you approve of slavery and the second class status of women? Have you made yourself a nuisance with the civil authorities? Have you told thousands of people that the traditional religion they have been following is misguided and they should pay more attention to what you say than what is written in Scripture? Do you get crippled beggars following you trying to touch the hem of your garment? Have you suggested to anybody that if they get the urge to chop off their penis they should go right ahead? Do you consort with whores and outcasts? Do you even have long hair and a beard and walk around in sandals? Can you name one way in which you are like Christ, just one?

Have you any idea who Ganesh is?

If people are told to venerate a book or be considered evil and be socially outcast in what way does the survival of that book count as passing the test of time?

I haven't seen any evidence for God. Have you got some?

Can you give an account of heaven that would make me want to go there even for an afternoon?

What is wrong with changing your mind when new evidence comes along? Should scientists just stick to the old explanations and pretend the new evidence isn't conclusive? That is the way of religion. What good has religion ever done for the world? How many diseases have been abolished by prayer compared to those banished by science? How many priests have gone to the Moon? How many bishops have explained the structure of atoms or provided mankind with new forms of energy, new materials or new techniques to communicate?

Do you think you're on a mission from God to save me? Have you any idea how many people have given up before you?

Give me answers not quotes. I've read the Bible, I know what it says and I'm not impressed.

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Martin Willett

http://mwillett.org/

YES, I certainly can imagine a world where there is no pain and suffering...and that place is Heaven. Earth began that way until Adam and Eve first sinned. Overcoming any pain and suffering is what makes us stronger, it tests our faith and makes us closer to God if we continue to turn to him even when the worst of the worst happens. And if you must ask, I am celibate and plan on waiting until I'm married. And no I don't disapprove of making a profit because there is nothing wrong with money unless you make it first priority and place it before God. Anything can separate you from God if you let it control you and you make it more important. Attempting to be Christ-like is not about looking like him. We are told to follow the laws that man has governed unless they go against what is written in the Bible. If it became illegal to pray or read the Bible or even be a Christian then I would certainly go against those laws. I have been on trips to help out people in need and feed the homeless. I began sponsoring a little girl in Indonesia. I've seen little children in 3rd world countries who have absolutely nothing still praise God and give thanks to him. Children who have such a strong, undeniable faith that I sometimes wish I could be more like them. That's how I know God is present. I do talk to my friends about Christ. I do it in a settling way where we can have a civil conversation without insulting one another. I ask them if they would like to come to my church. If they refuse than I don't hound them and condemn them and tell them they are evil sinners who are going to hell. Because I know that If I am going to bring someone to Christ than that won't be the way. I am not saying science is bad. And if a friends church does have some modern practice or beliefs then I will ask them why they believe in it. I'll ask them why it doesn't say it in the Bible. If someone believes in Purgatory then I'll call them out and tell them there isn't a single shred of evidence in the Bible that Purgatory exists. There are ways to call out people without insulting them and turning them against you.

I believe that God gives everyone certain talents and abilities to use for good. Those who find cures for diseases and advances in medicine I think God gave them those abilities to find those cures. And how can you be so sure that none of the scientists who have made these discoveries or have gone into space did have a faith in Christ?

I've seen instances where a non-believer, who has had alot of troubles on his mind, go to a christian retreat because a friend invited him; and hear one speaker preach a message to where it seems like the speaker is preaching directly to him. And finally open his eyes to God and dedicate his life to Christ that very same day. And see a stadium full of 20,000 grown men crying and hugging because they can feel the power of Christ. That's how I know Christ is present.

And you're absolutely right, I'm not that familiar with Ganesh. And I'm sure I can find alot of other people who aren't that familiar with him either. But I'm not sure I can think of anyone who has never heard of Jesus...even in other countries.

You are sold on a belief that science gives you, but when they realize they were wrong and tell you something different than you go with their newly discovered belief. So if a scientist, who originally believed the the Earth was created without God, was to convert to Chrisitianity then why wouldn't you believe him then?

And what does following Christ teach? Obviously the 10 commandments...but also, be kind to others, don't judge others or place yourself above anyone else, be quick to forgive and slow to condemn, don't be greedy and instead give to others, don't be jealous and envious of what others have, give to the poor, help others if they are struggling down the wrong path. ...yeah that sounds really horrible doesn't it? If everyone followed Christ and tried to live by his word then YES I believe this would be a much better world

...and when you live this way, people can see a light shine in you, people are able to see Christ through you and want to know more about Christ so they can shine to others

I didn't ask whether you could imagine a world without suffering, and heaven doesn't count as a world, I asked could you imagine how such a world could exist without a magical being stopping the evil from happening. That's a very different question. Merely saying something afterwards that refers to some of the words in the question does not count as answering the question.

If you see a million people go down to a sacred river does that prove their gods are more real than yours? Your 20,000 people in a stadium is bit small when compared to the demonstrations of the reality of other gods that the world provides us with. Other gods and beliefs get people to dedicate their whole lives, withstand pain, cut themselves with swords, beat themselves, blow themselves up or burn themselves to death. What do those demonstrations actually demonstrate? Human gullibility and willpower. Nothing more. We know people are gullible, we know people can do amazing and hideous things when they set their minds to it. None of that proves anything about what they claim to believe, only that they are human. We knew that.

Who wrote the Bible and who decided it was good? Where in the Bible does it say that the Bible is your only source of what is true? Where in the Bible does it say a committee of bishops of the Church of Rome can decide what is the Bible and what isn't and then weld the back cover on it for all time? Doesn't the Bible describe idolatry as a sin? Isn't the worshipping of the Bible (obligatory capital letter and all) a sin?

http://wsu.edu/~brians/errors/alot.html

Imagining that somebody goes to a Christian retreat without the intention of being converted is the same as imagining a person goes to an orgy for the free mouth wash.

I do not follow scientists. I follow science. Science has never become Christian. Faith is antithetical to science. Anybody who is a scientist who maintains a faith is doing it wrong, and doing it harm.

"When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said 'Let us pray.' We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land."

Desmond Tutu

Do you really think that what poor people really want most from Americans is what makes them smug?

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Martin Willett

http://mwillett.org/


To all atheists please note this well known phrase:

"I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out there is".

Question: Do you not have any fear to die?

Vera

I don't want to die because I like living and I suspect dying may be painful. However I have no fears about being dead as it is impossible to be dead. To be is to be alive. There is no way to be without being alive.

Death is inevitable, it will come, my life will end at some time and there will be no more experiences for me.

There is only this life, I do not intend to live it in fear. That would be wasting it.

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Martin Willett

http://mwillett.org/


Hello,

Hope you're really well.

I'm a freelance health writer who's been commissioned by Psychologies magazine to write an article on Tree Healing. Will you be able to help, answer some questions and provide a suitable case study who has a wonderful story of how tree healing has helped them (ideally someone who's aged between 20 and 50 and who's willing to have a photograph published in the magazine)? I'll also need to speak to someone who can explain its benefits from a scientific basis.

I'm a big fan of trees, so delighted to be able to write this article. It will be completely positive about this form of healing.

Many thanks for your help. Let me know if you'd like more details or if I can help you in any way.

Kind regards,

David.

David Hurst, Health Writer.

Tel: 07711-746218 (UK).

I think you might have me confused with a nutter. I am a person who likes trees, I have some in my garden. I am not a nutter. If I need healing I go to a doctor, or sometimes an off licence. Not a tree.

You may quote me.

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Martin Willett

http://mwillett.org/

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