Size Matters...?By Star and Martin Willett |
by Martin Willett No Star, you didn't. I can tell you that the idea that only the outer third of the vagina can feel the penis is wrong. There may be different kinds of nerves there but the vagina is sensitive all the way in to the cervix and a woman does know when the cervix has been pushed by an object inside the vagina. How that information will be processed by the brain is a moot point. It is almost certainly context sensitive, I doubt many women orgasm when having a gynaecological examination. The sensations will probably be interpreted differently by different women and at different times in the same woman. If a woman has learned to associate an uncomfortable fullness in the upper vagina with great sexual pleasure then for her size will matter. For many other women yes, they can tell the difference but it doesn't really matter that much either way. Size probably does matter a lot for sex toys, but it would rarely be a woman's top priority in the choice of a long term mate. And if it was would you really be interested in a woman who judged men with a ruler? I also strongly suspect that the dimensions of the vagina you have stated are measuring the vagina in the normal state. (As if any woman would feel normal with her feet round her ears and a ruler disappearing into her nether regions...) When a woman becomes sexually excited the vagina elongates. It is quite simple to measure a penis in either the erect or flaccid state and get a clear measurement, but a vagina is by its nature more of a potential space than an actual space, it isn't clear as to how to measure its size. There's more to sex than filling a vagina, a lot more. Surveys of women's attitudes to penis size regularly show that any preference women have is relatively unimportant, a good lover with a small penis is better than a selfish oaf with a large one. Penis size obsession is far more common among men. Naturally most women would prefer a reasonably large penis and a great lover. Our species are never satisfied with our lot in life so why should willies be an exception? If you buy that patch, those pills or that surgery, even if it worked and filled her to the brim she'd still find a reason to find fault. She would consider you too vain, too willing to waste money and she would be suspicious about whether you were doing it to impress another woman! As for breasts my attitude is rather similar to that of most women's preferences with penises: I prefer sensitive small breasts to great big insensitive pillows, but I'd be happiest of all with significantly above average size, real, pert, bouncy, sensual and sensitive. But I'm sensible enough to know that such perfection is very rare and I'm content to compromise on almost any feature except availability. |
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